Thank you :). We broke up because of communication problems. I ended up Losing it to him WITHOUT DATING HIM :( we kept it on a friends lvl still but we both were only committed to each other. I just wanted to say that I posted my story on December 22nd and as of January 2nd, he started calling me his girlfriend. Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated! i felt like the whole world just ended. Ive seen guys in a relationship go out with their single guy friends after a beer or two, his buddies are ragging on him for being in a relationship and venting their frustrations. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING. That is the gold that we take from lifes experiences because in the end it is about US not THEM! best of luck only you have the answers inside of you. I have watched complete players turn completely around the moment, not years later but the moment, they met the love of their lives. I disagree with Eric for saying that if were not in a relationship, we cant give good advice. Then she discovers hes on secret dates with girls in the few moments they are not together. Hes either uninterested or unavailable, and its time to move on. Did I take it to far? Its easier that way, trust me. Why are all of us asking why we cant leave?? He says that he is not ready for anything too serious, so I respect that and keep it moving. I cant thank you enough for your advice mr Eric Charles! he agrees about it. DONT do what I am doing right now although its very ironic because Im doing exactly what Im telling you guys not to do. Ive been dating this guy for over a year now, and he wont make it official, he keeps saying hes not ready,but the funny thing is, he keeps bringing me to his mums house, takes me out whenever hes got free time, I even lived with his family for 6months. Does it REALLY matter what the reason is? So.. the other night somehow it came up in conversation (I had said something to the effect of whats it like to have a girlfriend that gives you a BJ then goes downstairs and makes breakfast?) and he said youre not my girlfriend. Seriously?! I dont want to overreact, but my feelings are so hurt by this! Or is the title really even important at this point? One day, feeling brave, I peeked at one of his papers he was turning in so I could catch his name without asking. Now its time for you. Wrong. Forget about stressing out about him. He repeated, Im not as into you romantically as you are into me, Im worried about endangering our friendship, Id be gutted if this meant that we couldnt still be friends. There is too much more I can say. Guess what? I think that you have to match the effort hes puting into the relationship though. I know he still has some healing to do and I know they wont get back together but I am confused and I am scared that if I hang around, I will get more feelings but they will just use me as a companion or distraction until someone special comes along. Everything he does in our dating routine is better than any man has EVER treated me, and its amazing. I gave him my heart and he trashed it. i know this guy 3-4 years the problem is he has a girl friend but he always chats with me and proposes me daily and he asks to send me a pic also,im tottaly confused about this guy what does it mean he rally loves me or hes just kidding. He rationalizes It was just texts so it wasnt cheating. It is then revealed hes not even sure its in his DNA to be monogamous, nor is he sure he has ever felt in-love with her, or any girl for that matter. So a week in advance, I mentioned to him about planning a day where it was all about us and to remind us about our summer days together and just to do stuff together, like play Twister, watch movies, and I was going to make breakfast for him. About 2-3 months passed, going out to dinner, sleeping over, having sex. Move on to someone who wants you and appreciates you, so much so that he REQUIRES putting a label on it because he doesnt care what others think. Lets stop deluding ourselves already, ru not able to understand tat he oly using u fr the word so called as sex..acrdng to me he ll nt bcm committed to u better fing a new relationship wit committed person..god bless u, Ok, so, been seeing this guy for 2 months now. Ive always pointed out how unattractive neediness is for *men and women*. I understand where hes coming from and I told him I would support him no matter. im like wat? The title thing bugs me, sure. That should either cause him to say F@ck it and leave, he may do nothing or he may try to secure you as his own. and now its been a few days without us msging each other idk whut to do :'(, sorry for the very long msg so if u can help me out wud be great<3, Im going through this same thing now. Yea, but I think even 3 months is generoushe should wanna lock it up before that so you arent single anymore. That was our 3 months. We spent time together that night as a couple would. Lol these guys are getting.g emotional with me because I know how to set my table ladies. I love you, youre my girlfriend. why be with someone that does not want to commit to you? If he wants you out of that mentality, then hell have to step up to the plate. Ive been dating this guy for the past 5 months (weve known each other for 3 years but couldnt do anything because of certain circumstances). I have brought up the topic before a few times of making it official. He seems like he really doesnt want to talk about it..and i dont want to push him away by keep asking. What if we are parrotting information weve read that Eric has written. Maybe this AaG article will answer your question: http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/ask-a-guy-when-hes-still-in-touch-with-his-ex/. No, I dont care if I am jaded or bitter either. Not hearing from the other person for two weeks, having to send the dreaded email that says I know you are blowing me off and then the ol sorry for the mis-communication (cant wait to get rid of you) is also implied I am sure. and get on with your lives. But is it really fair for us to drag this on and wait around until the guy changes their mind? None of his relationships have ever lasted consecutively over 6 months. Im obviously in a similar boat or I wouldnt be here. Same thing. I dont agree with your opinion at all sorry. (2023) Table of Contents 1. Well we are now 7 months down, an additional two months and nothing has changed. I dont necessarily agree that a guy has to call you his girlfriend after dating only a couple of months. My sister tells me that if a guy says he doesnt want to commit then move on because its the truth. It is so hard to know what to do. Well, thats certainly true, in which case theres just no point in seeing the guy at all, otherwise youre simply letting him get away with whatever he wants/leading you on. There was no learning from that relationship just hard core sex really. This is my situation. Its never too late to get out, but the sooner you do the better with this guy. To a guy, calling a woman his girlfriend is typically a huge pain in the ass and if the woman is making herself so available and so committed when he hasn't committed to anything, why would he call her his girlfriend? Flash forward two months, which brings us to where we are now. We need to stop convincing ourselves that these guys are going to change their minds. I fell for him, we were all sweet and he changed suddenly. Trying taking 1/2 dropperfull Trace Minerals Research Liquid Magnesium Chloride Mega Mag to calm your nerves (put it in a little Odwalla OJ ). That hes actually someone worth waiting for. so to speak..taking time to deeply connect with their woman..slow not goal oriented..opening mens hearts and womens wombs.connecting, honouring, sharing.its really the best way to go I feel having practised both types of sexual relating. Sign up for ourfree newsletterand get a free chapterof our book,"He's NotThat Complicated". We would hang around after class for 20-30 minutes everyday and chit chat, before going our separate ways. "CDMC," 2020 Sarah Anne Johnson, via Yossi Milo, New York. I was going out with a guy.we were really happy together, atleast thats wat i thought. LOVE LETTERS He won't introduce me to family and friends He says that when he moves out of his parents' house, I won't be a secret By Meredith Goldstein Globe Staff, Updated April. And you dont have to take it!!! . I brought it up to him about where this is going and he said he wanted to take things slow and wants to see where it goes. Even though he tells me that his family and kids know about me I feel at times like the mistress or the "other" family. By that I mean: if you find yourself building up a fantasy in your mind of him being your boyfriend before he is, then you can be certain that youll start acting like hes your boyfriend (because thats the story you keep playing in your mind). In my opinion, it is much better to have a guy not say that youre his girlfriend when he doesnt think it will work out than to have him just say the words and have it mean nothing. Anyway. Be selfish. If it takes longer he never will. Get hateful, negative media out of your life. I was never strong enough to leave him. Youre probably way closer to finding it than that guy you were with. I am slowly trying to not have him be such a huge part of my life, not answering to his every begging call, declining invitations to hang out when he does ask to see me. In my experience, the reason I end up not wanting to label things officially or say I love you is because it feels like every time things are going great, Im enjoying being with her and Im really happy, literally the moment after I make it official or say those three words, she changes, suddenly were fighting all the time. The closest person he could introduce me to is his sister who lives about 2 hours from me. I guess the simple answer as to why he wont call you his girlfriend is because he doesnt have to. Its impossible for a woman to continuously bring a non gf while being with a guy she loves. He is a blocker. He may just be being cautious of his own and your feelings. It is a frustration on my part about dating and men. He kept saying he was, that he wanted to be more than just friends, and that he wouldnt bring me to meet his friends and family if he wasnt. I feel like Im his weekend girl. VERY EFFECTIVE then go to the pushing and pulling! My ex even joked about it. Its a tradition of theirs. I usually dont. She reminds the therapists who are buying his story that she saw the text messages and photos. That sucks because his family lives about an hour and 15 minutes from me. Before I do, just note that when I entered into this relationship I was just out of a 10 year marriage so I was in a VERY VERY weak place. If a guy isnt willing to call you his girlfriend after six months, DTMFA. but m seriously dont know what i have to do.. and yes another thing also he said to other girls that he is single. When we get into fights he leaves a dozen roses on my door step, he pays for everything when we do go out. We were out for our usual drinks and banter when he initiated things with me. I hope it is the best idea. The next day he phones me at midnight knowing i go to my favourite club every friday (where we met) confirming i was out and asking did i want to meet up as he was in town too i told him i would phone him back. My current bf totally agrees with what Im saying. He also paid me lots of little compliments. I never put any pressure on him. For me I think FEAR is challenged on either side but for different reasons. Only youll be able to intelligently comment on which of these could be true. This guy is worthless. time went by and one day he told me he REALLY likes me and is falling for me..the feelings happend out of no where i asked him for how long this has been going onhe said a while. Why did he feel the need to hide us? We finally got back together in January && weve been spending close to every night && most weekends together since. this blog is the best advice i have ever read in my life! Still, its in your best interest not to nurture anger or resentment towards men. If he cared, hed be with you. Im 51 hes 53 we are not having any children together and there are no plans to have children for our future but I would like him to be with me. i gotta make this plain in simple for ya and not a 10 minute story that you will have to read 50 times, you must tell him how you feel, if he does not come around, then leave him be and DO NOT acknowledge him for 2-4weeks no contact! . But besides that, theres nothing I would complain about. What will eventually happen though, is when my guy finds someone that he really is into, you bet hell call her his gf. What is that mean? If he really cares he will make a change and stop giving you a lame excuse. And there are also vile, despicable, selfish, lying people out there. Dump The Mother F**ker Already! . At first I have found it difficult, but slowly I am gaining confidence back again to join social groups. . I really needed a guys opinion in this & yours has been so helpful. Its not like people dont know we are together; there are pictures on fb, twitter, etc. I would be happy to hear anyones comments or advice. He doesnt reply my text messages immediately nd he doesnt call often sometimes a few days before calling or a week. But I keep hearing what he said about his past relationships in my head. Advice.Ever. When you could be of assistance to him (eg a companion/wingman) he is interested in you. His response was..that he never deleted me and he can prove it to me if we HANGOUT. Your comment even more than this article helped me to realize that I love what I have with my man and the appreciate it instead of worrying about a silly title. I am not advocating abandoning a relationship because its not perfect nothing ever is. I said that I couldnt do that- I dont think it would be good for me. So i phoned him back and we arranged to meet we both left our clubs early and met up. Exactly! Then changed his mind after a week and said he still wasnt ready and timing was off. If I left how much would it hurt (answer. This results in hundreds of dollars in relationship counseling with 3 different therapists, all of whom this charmer has even convinced that he has never cheated. they are vested in your heart, not his and they are trying to protect you. But THEN (wait shit another great thing about this man he tried to teach me the difference between then and than but I have forgotten so I hope I am using the right one) my gf that I live with started bugging me about him. I do have several positive people in my life and I dont think I have any negative ones nearby. It means why would he make it official if he already has you? you need to let him know what you really wAnt and how you feel. We had been talking for six months on Saturday and he also got out of a bad relationship. With as much time as he spends with me, I cannot even IMAGINE that hes dating another girl bc He spends a LOT of money courting me, and what self respecting guy would want to spend ALL his money on dating? Id like to get him to call me his girlfriend and post about me and meet more of my friends and family. Im pretty level headed but this.. Also, I asked him and he didnt deny. I agree with abby. He took his relationship status off of facebook this week, so that it no longer says single, but it doesnt show anything now. There are so many delusional women out there, its do unbelievable! If hes into you hell like that youve stood your ground and wont accept less than your worth. I had one man act all interested in me when he primarily was looking to hook up. I told him that I really needed a relationship status, because without one Im not entirely sure whats going on. But lately, Im feeling like something is going south here. And we have gone out to public places many times and have been seen as a couple. (A sub teacher) plus his grad classes he takes as well. He has met my mother but im not sure if his parents even know about me..which also concerns me. Heyy friends, Ive been reading some of your comments and I really like how everyones helping each other out. I work with men and women and Ive never shifted the responsibility or blame onto any one gender. no its not good.. please change urself from this .. Hi Everyone, The better choice is orienting yourself towards being proactive and positive. ? In a way I can see that I pressured him to make a choice. I feel like I did this with him already, ya know? Best of luck Kelli. A realistic DISTANT future of hypotheticals. You know I dont like being rejected nor do I like doing the rejecting. Thus far I have said NOTHING to him about giving this is a title bc I loved it just as it was. thats why sometimes he is so skeptical about things because he thinks things like this cant be real. Pls tell me what to do through my email account. Keep lines of communication open..keep being your wonderful, smart, beautiful, relaxed selves..let him call, text, initiate MOST of the time..TRUST!!!! I also dont like the fact that he still talks to his ex. I guess it may come from my sign, which is Scorpio. 3. leave. I cant believe I found this post. Also when we feel abandoned by a man (or woman) ask ourselves ET. IDK what to do. He has been trying to get to me for years but I constantly refused because of the past and I didnt trust him. Theres no threat of him losing his chance because you already act like his girlfriend in every way without the title. Im a wimp It bothered me too much that he didnt contact me after the accident so I texted him. I wonder why men are getting so sensitive nowadayz. Right now, Im just a little frustrated. You might feel ready to introduce your partner to your loved ones once you trust how they will act and . I think you'll find it really helpful. This sound familiar to anyone yet? How can I fix it? Ive been with my mate (not too sure if were boy/girlfriend) for 6 months. He says he is keeping his options open. They were married for 36 years and he never ever cheated on her. I am noticing a recurring theme with these posts. everything was perfect, it got dull the last 6 months because of me, and you must not have it in you to try to make him understand you know why because he wont and will not! He wants you to meet his friends, his family members and especially, his parents. He decided to see how things went with her, saying he didnt feel strongly about either of us and thought we were both nice he had known her longer so thats what he decided to base his decision on. He takes me out, he makes future plans, in short hes FANTASTIC. My heart goes out to you. I finally realized after a year and a half that I should just relax and enjoy it for what it is for as long as it lasts, because trying to make it be something else wasnt getting me anywhere, just make us both miserable. personally agreed the realtionship couldnt be change tremendously as what you expect when your boyfriend is just not a guy that youre looking for but you insist to stick with him and want him to change on some way. Hey Erica, OK, lets drop it. I am in that situation where I have been seeing someone for 9 months but he wont fully commit by calling me his girlfriend. yet again, I read yet another article and it all just becomes so crystal clear to me. But he avoids the topic of who are we and what we are doing and what direction were headed. Mastering trust is a worthwhile skill. I talked to this new guy til around Late November. He is an extended fbuddy who is looking past you to the next. It took a lot of willpower to say no, I cant do this anymore but Im hoping that I *wont* regret it and that it will save me from being even more hurt in the future. The advice you gave, is exactly what comes out of this guys mouth that I have known for a year. I dont like that i get anxiety and i just want to be with this guy cause hes one the most nicest and respectful guys i ever met. Hes cooked dinner for me and showed that he is very interested in me and i know he cares about me .He said im a priority to him but i just feel like we arent going anywhere. I really dont like it when a man tells me we are dating and then backslides his way out of it after we have been intimate. When my fiance and I broke up 2 years ago, I started dating and had some moron put me through a similar thing. Well from the span of the time above, he relentlessly pursued me, took awesome care of me when I was recovering at his house post-surgery (even bought all my groceries, medications and feminine products and fed me my entire supper the first night because I was in so much pain), emails about our special connection, cards, flowers and took me to a very, very expensive dinner for my birthday. Thanks for your time. On the other hand he spends a great amount of time with my son & me. 1. Be happy and content with your life and the right guy will come along and will only enhance it and make it even better. I am in the exact same situation right now. I feel i lost interest in him. He reassured me that he did not want me to see anyone else still, but just wasnt ready to call me his girlfriend. We got a taxi back to mine and i had found out he up and left his friends birthday to come see me (which i told him he shouldnt have!) Worst. i have been talking to this guy since october first off i have yet to get taken on a date dont get me wrong im all about doing the chillen at home watching a movie thing but his excuse is that his finacially unable to take me out ,but on fb ill see he went here or there .he will call me one time out the day usually at night bcuz he works and his phone is not currently on but i see he is still able to get on facebook ..so why cant i get a goodmorning or hows your day going going ..if that is his only way of communicating with me why isnt he taking advantage of it ? I couldnt even respond back to what he said. If youre both free love type of people who want to flit around from person to person with no real commitment, then thats youre thing and thats great, but dont live in denial if you arent thinking you can be. I know for a fact that he has commitment issues, especially being a Sagittarius. then Im sure we wouldnt stay right. However if someone has only being . But, I feel I cant tell him NO dont do that! because I dont want to seem like a controlling, jealous person. What if it never changes, what if I am never special to him like his ex was? How can the exact same thing happen to completely different people at a completely different continent. Hes admitted it and so have I. I been tryna get out the friendzone for sooooo long, we were so close at one point til he withdrew and went off the radar. This guy sounds scary to me. If a store was giving you free stuff, would you say no please, let me pay you for it? I may never know the answer. Ive been with this guy for 3 years now, yes THREE years, is that a record? There is no reason to chase rainbows It is or it isnt. I feel he is in love with me and hes called me his girl. For me its just not quite enough and my friends have said what if someone comes along who is ready to fully commit and want to be a couple sooner?? Ok so Ive been seeing a man for 3 years we agreed to see only each other and no one else sexually. I just dont get it. And bottom line, he is either willing to use his free will to commit or not. Man, this is a SOLID read! You need to define how you want to be treated and not to be trampled all over just because you let them. If a guy im friends with recently only doesnt text or email me but in a convo gossiping abt a couple from sumwhere he asked if im seeing anyone n i said not really. Any advice men? We went holiday, party or whatever we could do to be together. He might honestly not understand that what hes doing is hurtful, but he doesnt care either way. But thats not what you wantyou want him as a boyfriend. Dont worry, I see where I went wrong in so many ways (but only just now zzz) He lives with them right now and doesn't want to be kicked out with nowhere to go. I DONT GET IT!!!!! My response, was basically that you cannot have your cake and eat it too. okay,well iv been taling to this guy for about a month but dated him back in 7th grade,iv liked him alot since,i fell like i love him an he told me the same,recently we have been so happy didnt think i would ever find sumone like him,im tierd of playing all thos games where we play hard to get an act like we dont care ect.. but he ignored me all day today and didnt answer any text,however he answers everyone els,my friend called him an he says im smothering,so i text him an told him that i wud give him the space he needed and wud be here wen hes ready.However,i miss him so much already, i just wanna be with him so bad,i feel like im obsessed,please help me in what i should do i really really dont want to lose him.PLEASE! All the time we had been seeing each other he had acted like he really cared about me though (saying he could see himself falling in love with me but that scared him). Day after, ONE DAY, he was back to kissing me asking to meet up, wanting to talk about things he ended up crying. It was playful and sweet and he acted like a really sweet boyfriend and Ive been in terrible relationships and he knew before that I really liked him. I wish I would have read this months ago. we broke up. Follow your womens intuition. He was in the Army so I feel that had a lot to do with it but now hes out. This is when I realised how I was starting to feel about him. Im just so darn vulnerable and lonely right now because I dont know anyone in this town and Im in so much pain from this car accident. my ex boyfriend of 3 years recently contacted me and said that he misses me he said that hes not ready to get back together yet but wants to in the future he also said that being with other people (as in not in a commited relationship just kissing or watever else) is going to happen sometime at the start all this sounded okay to me we agreed to meet up no and then to keep the spark alive but i just dont know if i can wait because i know myself that if he was with other girls i would never be able to trust him which would result in us not being together in the future any advice.? He literlly jus said that oh my other half was there too he said that because I said I was at some place where his other half was aswell.. If your boyfriend wants to hide your relationship with you from his family then he will not introduce you as his girlfriend to them. I then made a text message boo boo and told him that I refuse to be used for sex and that Im worth more than that. But since then I have been awarded new opportunities here and decided that it was not the right time to go. please help. I tried to just disappear and let him go but he wouldnt stop calling/texting non stop like crazy so we talked about it and agreed we both really like each other and we want to see where it will go but now im back to square one. If you are not satisfied with it, exactly as it is, then you should keep looking. He is doing everything a guy does when he cares about you and considers you a girlfriend. Who needs a title anyway. Within a week, he had kissed me at a friends party. One of my aversions to using the word girlfriend is sometimes girls change when you start using labels. He had to cancel alot recently and the last time he cancelled on me i said to him basically i felt a bit silly asking him to do stuff all the time so he can contact me when its more convenient for him instead of me pestering him etc. How can you know someone well enough to make that kind of commitment after a relatively short period of time. I am in a (FWB) relationship with a man whos also in a eleven and a half year long distance relationship with a much younger women. I dont get it..if your greatest memories are with me, if everything about us is a relationship, met family friends even travel overseas together..say i love u..willing to work on it.then what is the big deal?? I never know what to say back. But guys arent always in that place. . Im sorry for rambling but all this is confusing kills me inside and I start crying. 2. All that was said hear is dont take advice from unsuccessful people. After 3 months I ran back to my man and havent left his side ever since. I dated a guy for 6 months, he travel a lots for his work. He even took me to meet his parents. He KNOWS IM INTO HIM AND HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM A LOT!! So, We just have to find the right guy!! So basically, we are already in a relationship.I just dont get it. The deeper meaning behind your guy not introducing you to his family and friends is because he does not see a future in the relationship with you and therefore sees no point in introducing you to them. But he calls me his FRIEND. The whole time I was talking to him, JJ would keep in touch with me. For starters, I have seen a lot of women get caught up on this issue and as a result, they bring it up more and more, smothering every ounce of joy from the relationship. 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